1. Pre-Wedding Ceremonies
These ceremonies involve the bride and groom's family, as well as close friends, relatives, and priests. It is important to have an organized plan of events for these pre-wedding rituals such as engagement ceremonies, wedding processions, pooja (religious prayer) ceremonies, sangeet parties (music and dance celebrations), etc.
2. Garments
Traditional Iyengar wedding garments are essential for both wedding parties, including traditional sarees and dhotis for women and men respectively.
3. Poojas & Rituals
Several religious rites need to be conducted before marriage to receive the blessings of various deities. This includes Ganesh pooja, Agni pooja, and other important rituals to ensure a happy and prosperous marriage for the couple.
4. Mandap & Decorations
The mandap is the platform where wedding ceremonies take place and should be decorated by Iyengar customs and traditions. This may include flowers, garlands, lights, etc.
5. Banquets & Catering
Selecting a venue and arranging food arrangements are essential in any wedding celebration! Traditional Iyengar banquet menus typically include idlis, dosas, payasam (rice pudding), vada (fried doughnuts), etc.
6. Wedding Invitations
Invitations are an important part of any wedding. It is essential to choose the right wording and design for Iyengar weddings, which typically include elegant scroll invitations with traditional symbols and designs.
7. Photography & Videography
Having someone who understands Iyengar customs and traditions to document your day is very important! Special attention should be paid to capturing all the special moments and rituals that take place throughout the ceremony.
8. Music & Entertainment
This can include both classical Indian music performed live or recorded, as well as more contemporary songs for the reception party afterward.
9. Gifts & Favors
Traditional gifts like betel nuts, mangoes, coconuts, and other items are typically gifted to the couple during their wedding day.
10. Transportation & Accommodation
Arrangements should be made for the safe transportation of guests, as well as accommodation for out-of-town relatives if necessary.