1. Establish the mediator’s role and objectives.
The mediator’s role is to facilitate discussion and negotiation between the parties in order to reach a mutually agreeable custody arrangement. The mediator should be impartial and should not take sides. The mediator’s objectives are to help the parties reach a custody arrangement that is in the best interests of the child and to ensure that the process is fair and efficient.
2. Agree on the ground rules for mediation, including confidentiality.
The ground rules for mediation should be agreed upon by the parties and the mediator before mediation begins. These rules may include issues such as confidentiality, respectful communication, and refraining from personal attacks.
3. Identify the key issues to be discussed in mediation.
The key issues to be discussed in mediation should be identified by the parties before mediation begins. These issues may include the child’s living arrangements, visitation schedule, and decision-making rights.
4. Gather information and evidence related to the key issues.
Each party should gather information and evidence related to the key issues to be discussed in mediation. This information can be used to support their arguments and positions during mediation.
5. Prepare an opening statement for mediation.
Each party should prepare an opening statement for mediation. This statement should summarize the party’s position on the key issues and what they hope to achieve in mediation.
6. Present the evidence and arguments related to the key issues.
Each party should present their evidence and arguments related to the key issues in mediation. The mediator will help to facilitate discussion of these issues.
7. Discuss possible solutions to the key issues.
The parties should discuss possible solutions to the key issues in mediation. The mediator will help to facilitate this discussion.
8. Negotiate a final custody arrangement.
The parties should negotiate a final custody arrangement that is acceptable to both parties. The mediator will help to facilitate this negotiation.
9. Prepare a written agreement detailing the final custody arrangement.
The parties should prepare a written agreement detailing the final custody arrangement. This agreement should be reviewed by both parties to ensure understanding and agreement.
10. Review the agreement with both parties to ensure understanding and agreement.
The agreement should be reviewed with both parties to ensure understanding and agreement. Each party should have the opportunity to ask questions and raise any concerns.