1. Difficulty forming secure attachments:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder often struggle to form close, meaningful connections and attachments with those around them, typically their caregivers or primary figures in their lives. This can manifest in a number of ways such as difficulty expressing emotion, physical intimacy, or looking to others for comfort and approval. They may also show signs of mistrust or avoidant behavior when it comes to forming relationships.
2. Difficulty controlling emotions:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder often struggle to regulate their emotions and can have difficulty understanding and responding appropriately to their feelings. They may exhibit outbursts of aggression, anger, frustration, or sadness which can be difficult for them to control.
3. Impulsive behavior and difficulty focusing attention:
These individuals tend to act without thinking through the consequences of their actions, making impulsive decisions which can lead them into dangerous situations. Additionally, they often have difficulty staying focused on tasks.
4. Lack of empathy or concern for others:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder may struggle to see things from another person’s point of view and may not understand or show empathy for the feelings of others. They may also have difficulty forming close relationships with peers or adults, as they are unable to express or experience meaningful emotion towards them.
5. Inability to form close relationships with peers or adults:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder often attempt to form relationships but can be unsuccessful due to their difficulty controlling emotions or understanding social cues. They may also act indifferent towards those around them, making it difficult for them to create meaningful connections with others.
6. Unresponsive or indifferent to caregivers’ attempts at comforting, even in stressful situations:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder may not respond to their caregivers attempts at comforting them, even when they are in distress. They may act indifferently or unresponsive to those trying to console them and this can create a greater distance between caregiver and child.
7. Negative view of self, low self-esteem, poor body image:
Due to the lack of secure attachments formed in early childhood, individuals with reactive attachment disorder tend to have a negative outlook on themselves and suffer from low self-esteem. This may lead them to develop an unhealthy body image or an excessive need for approval from others.
8. Extremely passive behavior, avoidance of eye contact and physical affection:
Those with reactive attachment disorder may act passively in order to avoid any potential conflict or confrontation. They may also show a lack of interest in physical contact, including cuddling and hugging, as well as avoiding eye contact with those around them.
9. Propensity towards outbursts that may include aggression, screaming tantrums and other disruptive behaviors when under stress:
Individuals with reactive attachment disorder often have difficulty controlling their emotions when under stress. This can manifest in outbursts such as aggression, screaming tantrums, and other disruptive behaviors which can be hard for them to control.
10. Poor social skills, difficulty reading social cues and understanding boundaries:
Due to the lack of secure attachments formed in early childhood, individuals with reactive attachment disorder may not have formed the necessary social skills to navigate everyday situations. They may struggle to read social cues and understand boundaries, leading them to act inappropriately in certain situations.